Thomas Dean Soder, a devoted husband of 51 years, father, and grandfather, peacefully departed this world on October 25, 2023, in Kansas City, Kansas, at the age of 76.
He was born on December 10, 1946, in Junction City, Kansas, to his proud parents, Louis Soder Jr. and Francis McHugh. Tom's journey was marked by resilience, love, and unwavering commitment.
Tom's early years saw him graduate from Manhattan High School in Kansas before being drafted into the Army in 1966. Stationed at Fort Lewis, Washington, he completed Basic and Advanced Individual Training. His service to his country as a combat heavy engineer took him to the airbase of Bien Hoa, Vietnam, where he served from 1968-1969 during the Tet Offensive. Following his Service in Vietnam he was honorably discharged and returned home to Kansas. His awards include the National Defense Service Ribbon, the Vietnam Campaign Medal, and the Vietnam Service Medal. Tom also qualified as an Expert Rifleman on his M-16 Rifle.
In 1970, Tom's heart found its match to Nancy Soder, and their love story blossomed into a lifelong union when they married at St. Patrick's Catholic Church in 1972.
Tom's legacy endures through his beloved family: his wife, Nancy Rae Soder (Hart) of Ogden, Kansas; his sons, Sean Thomas Soder of Topeka, Kansas, and Christopher Robert Soder of Waco, Texas; and his cherished granddaughter, Ariana Cheyenne Soder of Pensacola, Florida.
For four decades, Tom dedicated himself to the Big Red One at Fort Riley, Kansas, as a skilled woodworker before retiring in 2012. A true entrepreneur, he invested in multiple properties in and around Ogden. Tom's passion for hunting with his boys, appreciation for a good deal, and his knack for mischief, shared with his lifelong and best friend Sam Royer, brought joy to his life.
We invite you to join us in celebrating Tom’s life on the following dates:
Wednesday, November 1, 2023: Visitation from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m. –Yorgensen-Meloan-Londeen Funeral Home- 1616 Poyntz Avenue, Manhattan, Kansas 66502
Funeral service 10:00 a.m. Thursday November 2, 2023 - St. Patrick Catholic Church- 303 16th Street, Ogden, Kansas 66517
Burial will follow with military honors at the St. Patrick’s Catholic Cemetery in Ogden.
Flowers may be sent to the Yorgensen-Meloan-Londeen funeral home in memory of Thomas Dean Soder.
As we bid farewell to a remarkable man, husband, soldier, father and friend, let us remember the enduring love and cherished moments he leaves behind. Thomas will forever remain in our hearts.